Maitreya's Special Message for you Today
Guilt: the deeply secretive cause of our failures, diseases, depression & negative energy
Guilt is the bridge between anger and depression. It is one of the most dangerous and serious emotions and the least known by our conscious mind. Guilt is like a micro bug in the rug, which is so small that it is invisible and chases our soul for many lives. Guilt is the commonest emotion which most of us carry most of our life yet we are not even aware of it. It's there but you don't feel it. It's very much inside you and your soul fields circling around your body are tainted with guilt yet we cannot see this negative energy. It is like a residual of foods, drugs, medicines held up for years in the physical system, causing infinite diseases yet we just don't care, ignoring it, thinking you cant do anything about it and make yourself sicker by ingesting all possible chemicals. Isn't it easier to just remove those residuals? Guilt is residual of soul.
If subconscious mind is ever visualized by deep internal gazing, you will find that guilt resides on its linings and interiors like words in a book. Guilt makes us feel bad, liable, sinful, wicked, wrong, culpable, shy, evil, self hating and unworthy and if not released it becomes an engine of power that derails all your plans, forces you to depress your living energy, suffocating you and taking away your natural growth.
Guilt is the bi-product of holding anger for a great period of time against someone and something that it turns against us. Guilt can manifest as weight increase, cause cancer, nervousness, anxiety and various disorders.
Guilt is an attempt to correct, make appropriate and right today for something wrong we did in past. People make us feel guilty for controlling us or to hurt us. The accumulation of any form of guilt, current, of past or future, inhibits and shrinks your soul in such a way that you keep creating negative programming to your subconscious mind and soul forever.
Guilt programming of your current life is easier to understand, study, analyze and ultimately de-programme it but guilt of past lives, carried forwarded and accumulated on your soul's debit and credit account; can be rather tough nut to deal with. We will deal with this major life decreasing emotive phenomenon next and find out the solutions & remedies to make your life much lighter. More..
The nature of guilt: Knowing what guilt is and how it plays on us?
To understand and eradicate guilt from our system requires that we should know what guilt is and how this powerful negative emotion creates havoc on our soul. Guilt is not produced by our enemies but our own selves. It's our own creative energy, that changes its color from negative to positive. Guilt can come from our own impulsive actions, closest relations to people we have never seen. Guilt emanate from one incident yesterday to recurring events in day-to-day life felt with parents, mates, children, neighbors, coworkers, and friends. Literature, arts or merely comparing, observing and feeling deeply can trigger it.
Cumulative Guilt can be from our karmic actions of several past lives and we may be paying for that in this life in very bizarre formats and relations. Piled up Guilt is a never-ending tunnel where you keep walking in dark without ever seeing light. Before you start feeling guilty of not understanding what guilt is lets see what exactly is guilt?
You as an individual interact with other beings in this and other worlds. Even though we are not told, we do have some responsibilities, duties and commitments. Most of the time we don't know our limits, capacity and possibilities but we must fulfill our duties. During this course, we become scared, afraid, insecure, greedy, indecisive, lazy, indulged and out of sheer weakness & anxiety, we act, say and behave in manners, not appropriate of us, once words are uttered, actions done nothing can be undone.
If you try to recall past years, you see that many things you said and did were not of your true nature and worthiness but you simply were taken away by your behavior, emotional environment of your mind, that you lamented later, felt remorse and said oh! I wish I had not said or done that. Then there are so many unfilled desires, dreams, frustrations, disabilities and limitations that did not let you do things you wanted to do. So there are things you did and others you could not do but you kept them intact in your mind. Then there were others who hurt, trampled, used, stabbed-in-back, ditched and cheated you, but you were unable to react yet you did not forget those feelings of hurt etc. by storing them in your mind to deal with later.
However we forget to deal with these stored emotions and in beginning these are just small things but over the years they start inflating like balloons and these feelings reside in our inner being, as a rancid food-oil or stale food in refrigerator; that we forgot to clean. You do know that you have these foul feelings inside but you don't do anything. The result: you alter your behavior. We shout, yell or beat the wrong or innocent person, start cheating, hurting, damaging others, indulge in harsh talk, get angry suddenly, spoil our mood, feel distaste for everything and behave in the most aggressive way possible yet we don't really touch our inner feelings. This is what guilt is.
What happens when guilt is not recycled in due time?
Cumulative guilt when not released in its due course, becomes a heavy weight fireball, which keep burning us inside in gradual manner. When passive, many people try to extinguish this with drugs, wash with alcohol and keep them hurting inside with other methods. It grows and soon expands like jungle fire and one just keeps thinking a single event that caused the hurt and guilt, till making one addicted or depressed. When active, some people with built-up frustration, direct externally, by start hurting others, projecting their guilt and anger in others, refusing help offers etc.
Try to recall any event where you were hurt, insulted or abused and you could not react at that time. Or just remember when you were kid someone adult judging - Oh how could you be so stupid, idiot or such an animal you are etc. You probably couldn't raise voice but you kept that feeling internally and you later beat up some younger kid or did some mischievous action or simply shut your inner doors. But till you found a way to release, you felt something was in your throat, stomach or eyes waiting to burst out; and if you did not release it you felt uneasy.
Unfortunately many people with introvert nature cant react or release even later by keeping it all inside. When the air becomes too hot, they explode and do something unnatural, some awkward or shocking thing. You feel really calm once this bubble is out but imagine millions of people who keep thousands of guilt traps in their soul and live half-hearted lives. Usually these are the people who you find unusual, troubled with tough exteriors or with always angry or sad, sullen faces etc.
Guilt is an essential natural mechanism like fear geared to protect us. It is humane to feel guilt, fear & anger but we must release it as soon as possible.
Hardening of FEELINGS of guilt creates cruelty and crime. Due to karmic debts or sad circumstances some people are exposed to so much brain washing, programming, pain, training or inhospitable civil ambience or horrible upbringing that they gradually become immune to guilt and fear. They become numb, cold and the most unfortunate ones lose all their compassion & guilt by being hardened and become criminals, killers, terrorists or dangerous anti-social elements...
-maitreya
| By Anonymous on Sunday, May 9, 2004 - 10:30 pm: |
MY DEAR FRIEND,
HAI,
I VISITED YOU SITE,WHICH I LIKED VERY MUCH HOPING YOU CAN HELP ME.PLEASE DO SEND ME THE ANSWER ON MY EMAIL ITS VERY PRIVATE.I WILL BE VERY THANK FUL TO YOU.AND WILL PRAY FOR YOUR SUCESS.
ITS ALMOST 6 YEARS I AM SUFFERING A LOT I HAVE COMPLETED MY STUDIES TILL 12 THEN MY MOTHER GOT CANCER SO DUE TO THAT I COULD N'T STUDY MORE.SHE GOT EXPIRED IN 1999 (MAY GOD BLESS HER SOUL)THEN I WAS ALONE.NO ONE WAS WITH ME JUST MY FATHER AND SMALL SIS.AFTER SOME TIME I HAVE TO ARRANGE MY FATHERS MARRIAGE .SO I DID..AND MY FATHER GOT MARRIED....
WELL THEN AFTER SOME TIME SOME ONE CAME IN MY LIFE AS MY LOVE.(HIS BIRTH DAY IS NOV-7-1971) AND DAY BY DAY I GOT INVOLED WITH HIM .THE TRUTH IS I REALLY LOVED HIM VERY MUCH. BUT AFTER 2 YEARS HE STARTED SAYING HIS PARENTS WANTS HIM TO GET MARRY.HE TOLD HIS CHOICE ABOUT ME BUT THEY WANTED HIM TO MARRY THEIR FAMILY FRIENDS DAUGHTER.(ONE MORE THING THEY WERE OUR FRIENDS TO)SO THEY WERE OUR FAMILY FRIENDS TO.I DID EVERY THING HE TOLD ME TO IMPRESS HIS FAMILIY BUT HE COULDN'T CONVINCE HIS FAMILIY.I STOP TALKING TO HIM AS I WAS SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION .
AFTER 2 WEEKS I GOT THE NEWS HE IS GETTING MARRIED.HE USE TO CALL ME BUT COZ OF PROMISE I COULDN'T TALK TO HIM AS MY PARENTS TOLD ME IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL COME TO YOU.... THEN HE GOT MARRY TO THE GIRL WHICH WAS MY FRIEND TOO. I WAS REALLY IN VERY BAD CONDITION.THAT I EVEN TRY TO DO SUICIDE BUT... NOW THAT GUY HAS A BABY GIRL TOO. AND HE STILL CALL ME .I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM SINCE 2 YEARS.I HAVE SO MANY QUESTION WHY DID HE DO THIS TO ME? I EVEN DON'T KNOW WETHER HE LOVED ME OR HE WAS PLAYING WITH ME? I DON'T HAVE GUTS TO TALK TO HIM .HE STILL CALLS ME.I AM STILL IN VERY PAIN... I EVEN CANNOT EXPLAIN IT. I HAVE CRIED A LOT NOT EVEN THIS I AM HAVING MANY MENTAL PROBLEMS.PLEASE HELP ME I NEED SOME DIRECTION WHAT SHOULD I DO.I CANNOT FORGET HIM.. PLEASE HELP ME... CAN YOU TELL ME WHEN WILL I GET MARRY COZ EVERY ONE TELLS ME ONCE YOU GET MARRY YOU WILL BE OK. ..........
BUT I KNOW MY HEART IS IN VERY PAIN WHICH I CAN'T TELL ANY ONE.. NOT EVEN HIM...I HAVE SEEN HIS EVERY PICTURES SINCE MARRIAGE TILL HIS BABY NOW YOU CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SUFFERING FROM.
I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS CAN YOU TELL ME ABOUT MY FUTURE?
WHERE AND WHEN WILL I GET MARRY IN MY REALTIVES OR OUT SIDE?
WILL IT BE A GOOD FUTURE ?I AM REALLY WORRIED ABOUT IT..?
WHO WILL BE IT ? I MEAN ANY GUESS?
AND IF THERE IS ANY PROBLEMS TELL ME...
MY BIRTH IS OCT-2-1977.
PLEASE....PLEASE..........PLEASE.............PLEASE...........PLEASE.........PLEASE..........PLEASE.........HELP ME I WILL BE WAITING FOR YOU ANSWER.PLEASE FORGIVE ME IF THERE IS ANY MISTAKE IN MY MAIL.IF YOU NEED ANY DETAILS REGARDING ME PLEASE TELL ME I WILL SEND YOU EVERY THING..TAKE CARE .......BEST OF LUCK.THANKS AGAIN WAITING FOR YOUR MAIL ON MY ID...
| By WANT MORE on Sunday, September 21, 2003 - 02:57 pm: |
I HOPE YOU CAN HELP !!! MY HUSBAND IS VERY AFFRAID OF GETTING OLD . HE IS 50 NOW ... I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS AFFRAID TO DIE AND HE SAID NO. WHY IS GETTING OLD BOTHERING HIM SO MUCH ?? I NEED TO HELP HIM .
B.D WANT MORE TIME TO LOVE
7/10/54 SHARON
11:05 AM
OGDEN, UTAH
| By sums on Thursday, September 23, 2004 - 12:40 pm: |
I feel sick no where in particular the truth is every thing I do seem to stress me.I cant find a decent job and I have a baby to support I just I cant think anymore.
| By Anonymous on Wednesday, January 8, 2003 - 01:20 pm: |
hello!i found your site and loved it...thought it was very complete.
birth date:2nd of august 1979,Toronto-Canada
reading your page on guilt helped me a bit and made me understand the real meaning of the concept.
a few months ago my boyfriend broke-up with me suddenly.his reasons were shallow, saying he was confused and didn't know what he wanted or felt about me anymore.i still love him*a short while after this had happened,feeling lost and abbandoned,i let myself fall in the hands of a "friend" of ours...ashamed of what i did,even though my boyfriend and i weren't together,i felt and still feel that i went against all my moral and values.everything i had learned and that my parents showed me seemed as if had been lost.and has been.
a friend of mine,noticing that i wasn't happy with myself,thought i should tell my ex-boyfriend what had happened between our friend and i,in order to make myself feel better.so,i did.i told him some days ago.his reaction was better than i thought(his birth date:2nd of august 1979-too!!! -Angra-Terceira-Açores-Portugal),and we talked a lot about everything!
we are good friends still and love speaking to one another***but i still love him!unfortunately i think he just sees me as a friend.
so, as you can tell, i'm sad for two reasons:because he doesn't want me back,for now,and because of my eternal guilt.even though i told him,i can't help feeling miserable about myself.
thank you for reading this and i await your advice.
| By Fee on Wednesday, April 17, 2002 - 12:18 am: |
dear Maitreya
Please help me! I have been in a relationship for 7 years with a man d.o.b 27 dec 1972 my d.o.b is 6 mar 1972. We have had many ups & downs resulting in many unhappy times for me. Recently I feel i no longer love this man as i once did. I feel very guilty because of this but also want to move forward in my life. a month ago I met a man d.o.b 7 aug 1963. We were attracted to each other instantly. He lives in USA i live in UK. we have been talking every day on the phone and plan to meet on may 1st. I am very excited about it and think of him all the time but can't stop the feelings of guilt surrounding my partner of 7 years. I think there may be a bright future with the new man but still feel anxious!!! please help. Thank you.
| By Patricia on Thursday, January 31, 2002 - 09:57 am: |
Blessings, M! Can U give some informaiton and signs of how to know when a person meets a person that was in a past life? There have been times that I have felt harmony with others, but if they turn cold suddenly, there have been times I felt my heart chakra drain of energy, like they stabbed me in the heart, in just a few simple words. When the energy drains, then I feel that I had been left to die or neglected from past life traumas. Could this be past life karmic retribution, especially if it is unexpected?
| By Candle of Buddha on Wednesday, January 30, 2002 - 06:55 pm: |
dear maitreya,
i was quite impress with your site,Why??
A very good question, i have no idea who you are just as maitreya, can you tell me what do you do??
my understanding maitreya is the ultimate recranation of jesus,buddha,mohhamad as in one to bring the world to a much better place.
if you claim as maitreya, can you tell me why are people in afganistan,indonesia,bosnia suffering, i think that you should much more serious job BEEN given by GOD so why are you wasting your valuable time on this kink of matter.................
| By jch on Wednesday, January 16, 2002 - 05:18 pm: |
Hi maitreya ,
I have a problem which I really wants to discuss with you. My particulars are:
NAME - JATIN CHOUDHARY
GENDER - MALE
DOB - 02-07-1974
BIRTH TIME - 14. 55
BIRHT PLACE - DELHI
COUNTRY - INDIA
I had an affair with a girl for the past 4 years particulars are:
NAME - AMARPREET - MANIKTHALA
GENDER - FEMALE
DOB - 03.06.1979
BIRHT TIME - 14.00
PLACE OF BIRTH - BHOPAL(M.P.)
CONTRY - INDIA
I came in contact with this girl in 1997 , in dec’1999 we got engaged , in march 2001 she went to USA with her parents and I came to know that she got married there on September’2001. all this time we were in touch of each other I last talked to her on 15th august’2001 , she got married there without even talking to me as you can guess I am very much hurt cos we really use to love each other very much.. please guide me what can be done now. CAN WE BE TOGETHER AGAIN?? AND IF YES THEN HOW ? AND IF NO THEN HOW SHOULD I FORGET HER??
Please do reply cos I am very depressed.
Sincerely yours,
JATIN CHOUDHARY
| By Syl on Monday, January 14, 2002 - 08:47 am: |
I met a guy younger than me but I don't know if he is intersted by me.What do I do?
| By Buckybuc on Sunday, January 13, 2002 - 05:53 pm: |
Dear Maitreya
I guess I get quite emotional at times but also try to keep my rationality. It will be nice to know how to vent out anger in ways that does not damage existing relations.I am only one of those who believes that one has to chart their course in life as simple and distinctive as possible. This way one could probably get more excited with their existence. Although my approach to how I go about following this is still uncertain, I could use all the help I can get in keeping focused.
| By Anonymous on Sunday, January 13, 2002 - 02:33 pm: |
Dear Maitreya, your themes are as always interesting. I wonder though if guilt is not included in a bigger theme: unacceptance of the environment, of life as it runs around us. Where from are comming all these allergies (I myself have some)? Where from are comming our sufferings? What should we do to live in this world without loosing the other necessary dimension: our connection to God? What should we do to understand better how to live in the middle of the cross (horizontally and vertically in the same time?). It is my goal, but I doubt I'll be able to do so. Something is missing, I don't know what.
| By SuziR on Saturday, January 12, 2002 - 10:13 pm: |
Dear Maitreya
I never even thought about the New Year but now that it is here I feel so dissapointed, bored, tired and fed up in my life. I am trying, I think, to make things somewhat better in my life, I workout but still cannot seem to loose weight, I work parttime,I think I am a good and loyal employee but I am never appreciated by my boss, my love life is very parttime and unfulfilling and my children, I get on well with my youngest but my teenage daughter and I do not get on well at all and she actually seems to 'hate' me - she makes our lives hard going a great deal of the time.
Can you give me any help with all this? Thank you. DOB 8 March 1960
| By AB on Saturday, January 12, 2002 - 05:55 am: |
since i was little girl, my mom always hit me even for the wrong or no reason......hit me not just with her hands...
my dad did not strong enough to handle it. and most of my family always blame me as bad kid.
i was very sad. i felt lost, blind and no direction. i was full of anger and dissapointment of unfair life. it was painful.
i will not tell you in detail how my life for 24 years of my ages. it was miserable. i was not afraid of death but i'm against suiside too. i always try to fix the situation but most of time i just left...gone for a new world...trying to forget the past (most of the time can not) and to find good reason to stay... just do what i want to do and life is go on....
a good impact anytime i left is that i didn't have to stay in my anger too long, so i would never be an extreme violence person. controlled my anger is one of the important materials that i learned. because once the anger controlled yourself, you are nowhere.
until one day something wake me up. and i felt like i am a new person. now, i recall again my past and i try to recycle my soul.
it's very hard. the good thing that i always proud of is that i always keep trying.
and one thing that i learned is: whatever come in my life is part of my life. and my life itself is part of me. i can do anything in my life and change it from one to another. your life is depending on you.
maybe, i think too big for my self or too proud (selfish or anything you named it...) for who and whatever i am, but i can say loudly, even i failed in materials world, that how happy i am now.
i hope this will help you. i open for anything in mind just say it.
thanks
| By Anonymous on Saturday, January 12, 2002 - 12:00 am: |
Today's news letter...The right time, the right place and the right person .. gives me a lot of inspiration...and even ur saying that...U do know what i seek.. and i will get..does give me a lot of hope...bcs i have faith in every word u say...
| By Anonymous on Friday, January 11, 2002 - 07:02 pm: |
I feel so lost, like my life has no direction... I have a wonderful husband and family but still I feel empty and trapped. I need some direction, what should i do? Also I wish my financial situation would get better, will that happen?
Born 7-26-78
| By Anonymous on Friday, January 11, 2002 - 01:05 pm: |
Hello Your personal Forecast for 01-11-2002: You say: "Your emotional needs are not readily fulfilled by others "
**You are so right. No one seems to appreciate or value me! I gave a beautiful birthday party for myself—and hardly anyone has thanked me! I feel abandoned when this happens. Feel unloved! Given that I have so much love to give, I am not sure why people do not want my love—what is it I do that seems to repel love? I would dearly love to know!
"Try to remove internal blocks or fears that may be holding you back from true intimacy and understanding in your relationships."
***I wonder what these blocks are! Please let me know why people do not value--do not tell me that I do not value me-- I do!
Thankyou
P. Born 06-01-48.
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